Saturday was the day for the monthly visiting day at Donna's boarding school. Even parents are preventing from visiting other days besides the designated one. The reasoning behind this rule is that it allows for a better learning environment because of fewer distractions. Boarding school is also preferred because if a child goes to school at home, then they are likely to have to help with work or chores around the house in the evening. Read chores as caring for the younger children, working in the shamba (field), wood for cooking, etc. Additionally, because of the lact of electricity in many households hours for study are shortened.
The drive to Donna's school was about an hour south. Seeing Donna spotting the family and then running to greet them created a real warmth in me and an understanding of a loss that I feels has happened in many family units. This is a country where extended family is still very cherished and people often stay within close proximity for their entire life. Also, paying to send a child to school is done as a way to better the family and is somewhat of a sacrificed recognized by all. I think it's done with the understanding that despite the time away, it is best in the end. I'm not sure that I am making sense on this one, but hopefully I am.
I'm excited because Donna will be home in another 6 weeks and will stay through the month of December and January before heading back. She is a kind young woman that has an infectious smile and life. All of the children do.
Still adjusting to the time change, the driving (crazy), and the rainy season (torrential rains around 4 or 5 in the afternoon, lasting30-40 minutes).
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